Month: May 2016
Why Am I a Mini-Woman?
Hello, my amazing Tribelet of Mini-Women! Why exactly do I call you that — Mini-Women? I always have, ever since I started writing the Lily books … before you all were even born. (Yikes!) The answer to that question makes the perfect introduction to our series on your changing body. So here it is:
If you’re a girl between eight and twelve years old, you’re a mini-woman, because you’re no longer that little baby girlfriend who couldn’t even make her own peanut butter sandwich, but you haven’t completely lost your mind and become a teenager. Although I suspect there’s some eye-rolling and whatevering going on.
Some people will say you’re a tween, which you are. That’s why our blog is called “Tween You and Me.” But in conversations like this I like “mini-woman”. That’s because:
* There are changes going on in your body. It’s not the same as it was a year ago or a month ago or even yesterday. And it might be a little bit different tomorrow. It’s like you’re turning into someone else. Actually, you are.
* All of that is caused by hormones which are chemicals being made in your body that are slowly changing you from girl to woman.
* The stage you’re going through, when the hormones do their thing, is called puberty. It’s making you into a smaller version of a woman. A mini-woman.
Before you start freaking out with, “A woman? I’m having enough trouble being a kid!” relax, okay? Yeah, it can seem scary. Especially because it’s coming just when a lot of things outside your body are changing too — like more homework, harder math, more complicated friend drama. Now you have all that PLUS bras, hairy armpits and feet that are suddenly too big for the rest of you.
Seems like God could have come up with a better plan, right?
Actually, it IS a good plan. The fact that it’s a process and doesn’t happen all at once is an awesome thing. Can you imagine going to sleep one night at age 10 all flat-chested and hairless and waking up looking like you’re 18? Talk about freaking out. Yeah, God knows what God is doing.
Still, it can feel scary. But it doesn’t have to be. You have a lot of help, and one of those helpers is this blog. From now until probably the end of the summer, we’re going to talk about all the things that happen to mini-women’s bodies and how to get through them with class and faith and even some fun. There’s so much that’s amazing about this transformation that’s taking place, why struggle with the hard stuff?
These are the kinds of things we’re going to be talking about:
* all the facts so you can understand what’s going on and why
* being prepared with the right supplies
* finding the right people to help you
* how to turn to God as your main help
* liking the body you’re growing into — even if it doesn’t look the bodies on the models and singers and movie stars
YOU are going to be involved in this. At the end of every post I’ll ask for your thoughts and questions and fears and aha! moments. Your comments will be woven into everything — including the ones you made on the post “When It Gets Ugly.”
This is like a journey and we’re taking it together. Some of the steps we’ll take will apply to everybody. Some will be unique to just you. Always, always, God will be out ahead of us, showing us the way many mini-women before us have traveled, and making it better than ever.
I’d like for you to do two things before we begin. One I gave you a heads-up on yesterday and that is to make yourself a Talking To God Journal if you don’t have one already. This is a blank book where you’ll write your thoughts to God about this journey we’re on. In each post I’ll get you started with an open-ended sentence for you to fill in as your write, although of course you can include anything you want. Your journal will be private and personal, just between you and God, who made and cares about your body.
The other thing I want you to do is show this post to your mom or guardian. If there is anything about puberty that she would rather discuss with you before you read it here, please have her email me at nnrue@att.net so I can tell her when I’ll be posting on that topic. That way she can make sure you don’t read that particular post.
If you want to leave a comment now, tell us where you are on the mini-woman scale:
1 – I’m still pretty much the same as I was six months ago except maybe for being taller. My body hasn’t started to change yet.
2- I’m seeing some changes in my body that probably other people can’t see or don’t notice.
3- My body is so different than it was a year ago and EVERYBODY can tell, I’m sure of it.
See you next week for some more Body Talk!
Blessings,
Nancy Rue
We’re BA-A-A-A-ACK!
Hello, my awesome Tribelet of Mini-Women! We were having some issues with our Join the Tribelet website and blog, but we’re back on track now, ready to get into ALL your questions and issues and concerns about those changing bodies of yours.
Your response to our last post was AMAZING — SO many questions, I haven’t even gotten through all of them yet. That means I’ll put up our actual post TOMORROW, Friday, May 20. In the meantime, if you don’t have a Talking To God Journal, try to put one together before we start our new series. Here are some examples — and do help each other with this if you have questions, okay?
You get the idea, right? Tomorrow we’ll talk about what to write there. Can’t wait! I’ve missed you …
Blessings,
Nancy Rue